Monday, April 18, 2011

How Long Do I Stand?

Forever! Yes, I know....but, I only waited for 3 months......could I have continued? If we surround ourselves with those that will encourage us when we are down, then I believe we can continue doing something forever."  This does NOT mean we won't get tired......

Don't let the number of years stop you praying and waiting for the miracle of your marriage being restored. 

"We want each of you to show this same diligence to the very end,
  in order to make your hope sure. We do not want you to become lazy,
  but to imitate those who through faith and patience inherit what
  has been promised.  When God made his promise to Abraham, since
  there was no one greater for him to swear by, he swore by himself,
  saying, "I will surely bless you and give you many descendants."
  And so after waiting patiently, Abraham received what was
  promised."  Hebrews 6:11-15

Seek the Lord for His answer to your questions. Then your Lord speaks to your heart. Then obey His commands. God's ways are not our ways.

"For the revelation awaits an appointed time; it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it linger, wait for it; it will certainly come and will not delay." Habakkuk 2:3

What is the meaning of "patience?"   In the Vine's Complete Expository Dictionary, it is a noun, described, "Patience grows only in trials, under chastisement, under undeserved affliction, in fruit bearing, in running the appointed race.  Patience perfects Christian character. Believers who become patient are strengthened with  all power through His Spirit in the inward man."

In the New World Dictionary, patient is defined as, "Bearing or enduring pain, trouble, etc. without complaining or losing self-control; refusing to be provoked or angered, as by an insult, forbearing; tolerant; calmly tolerating delay confusion; able to wait calmly for something desired; steady, diligent; persevering." 

As we read throughout the Bible, we can see how people had to wait patiently for their miracles, their visions, and their promises.  Waiting patiently is developing your Christian character and you are being an example to others while you wait.  May you and I wait, always praising the Lord and not grumbling, trusting and persevering, never giving up or quitting.  We will reap what we sow so be patient waiting for your promise!
Has your marriage fallen apart? Has your spouse found someone else? Do you feel like you are not number 1?  You have cried out to the Lord and He says He will restore and rebuild your marriage, giving you promises, but be patient.  Let's not be like the Israelites who grumbled and complained and made God angry. It's worth waiting for His timing, so do not grow weary in well-doing.

Standing for Marriage

2 comments:

Gombojav Tribe said...

Your standing and waiting wasn't like a lot of people's "waiting." I see so many people who say they are open to reconcilation--meanwhile they are dating other people, clearing their spouses stuff out of their houses, getting rid of the wedding pictures, etc.

You? You wore your wedding ring, never changed your status from married to single parent or what I hate more "it's complicated."

While you waiting you were standing--which is an active position, not a passive one. You were praying, fasting, actively loving and being more Christ-like than anyone I've ever seen in your situation.

And the rest of us? I've never seen a family be so lovingly nosey and aggressive. We were fasting, praying, cutting our hair, doing spiritual warfare, putting Josh on every prayer chain that existed, sending him notes and cards and Scriptures. Sure he'd say things to make us back-off. Did we? Not a chance! All is fair in love, prayer and war!

So, waiting forever? Yes. But, it's from a position of victory, not a position of defeat.

Serena Abdelaziz said...

Thank you! I am sure THAT will definitely get addressed....definitely from a position of victory. It was knowing without DOUBT that the WAR was WON....DESTINY was at stake...I wasn't going to give in to an alternate "plan!"

I hear so much of "God can use us all...." Yes, indeed...but do you want BEST or 2nd best?!?

Thanks for the kind words!!!