Showing posts with label Doubt. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Doubt. Show all posts

Friday, January 25, 2013

The Covenant Trumps Everything

It is always so great when you read something in the Word of God that encourages you to keep focused on Him instead of your circumstances.  Recently, as we were reading with our kids in the book of Exodus, for school, we ran across some Scripture that reinforced the fact that God sides with the Covenant.  If you have a Bible, you should get it out to follow along and read for yourself.

As you may well know by now, we believe and take great comfort in the fact that God always sides with the Covenant.  It does not matter what the Covenant references.  He always will support, honor, defend, and remember His Covenant.  When God makes a Covenant with His people He does so knowing the full ramifications of His doing so.  He knows that we may fall short of upholding the Covenant.  He knows that we will forsake the terms of the Covenant.  He knows that we may not always honor the Covenant.  But He ALWAYS will remember His Covenant.  Even if it seems to us that it would be easier to negate the full terms of it and allow it to be forgotten.  He honors His Word that He swore in the Covenant.

Exodus 6 is the beginning of the story of when God has Moses lead the children of Israel out of Egypt.  There is some very interesting wording that is used in this passage.  In verse 4 it says, "I reaffirmed my Covenant with them."  What Covenant was God referring to?  The one that He made with Abraham MANY years before.  He had sworn in that Covenant that He would give Abraham and his descendants the land of Canaan.  God did not need reminding of His Covenant.  Verse 5 says the He heard the groans of Israel and was well aware of the Covenant.  The Covenant was still the foremost thought in the mind of God even though it was over 400 years that Israel had been in Egypt.

Israel could not understand that God had promised them land of Canaan but they were stuck as slaves in Egypt.  They could not see the fulfillment of the Covenant because of the situation that they were in.  In verse 9 it says that Israel had become too discouraged by the brutality of their slavery.  However, their situation (being slave in Egypt) or the brutality of it did not negate or detract from the terms of the Covenant.  God was still going to honor the covenant and bring them into that promised land.

Whats does this mean for us?  It means that in spite of the horrible situations that we find ourselves in our marriages that God has not forgotten the Covenant.  It means that in the midst of the brutality of our current circumstances that God's marriage Covenant is still His foremost thought towards us.  It means that although our marriage may look like Egypt, He is taking us from Egypt into Canaan, the land of promise.  Do NOT misread this and think that we are advocating you leaving your spouse in order to find a new relationship to get into or that we are suggesting that your marriage is not the promised land and you need to be waiting for a new marriage.  What we are saying is this: God has not forgotten His Covenant between Himself, you, and your spouse!  He remembers it in its fullness and is currently working to accomplish all of it.  Even though your circumstances may cause you to doubt His ability to accomplish it, He will still do it.  Why?  Because God CANNOT lie.  If He lied even once all of creation would crumble because everything that is was formed by His Word.  Therefore, the words that He spoke when the three of you (you, your spouse, and God Almighty) joined into the marital Covenant MUST be accomplished.

What we must realize and what the enemy of our souls (aka the Devil) wants us to forget is this: the Covenant trumps everything!  The power of Covenant does not reside with the weakest of participants and, as a result, easily broken.  The power of the Covenant comes from the most powerful of participants and, as a result can only be broken by one more powerful that He.  All lies are subject to the truth of the Covenant.  All disobedience is corrected by the honoring of the Covenant.  All other ties are broken by the binding of the Covenant.  The Devil knows that the Covenant is  binding agreement.  He knows that he has no legal ground upon which to stand.  He knows all of this and wants you to forget it.  However, it does not matter if you forget or have moments of doubt; the Lord is well aware of His Covenant.  He remembers it.  He honors it.  He defends it.  Even at our weakest moments, and when we cannot see the Covenant because of the brutality of the situation, He is still powerful and is remembering His sworn Covenant.

You may feel like you are in Egypt: a hopeless house of bondage from which you cannot escape the pain of. It may look like there is nothing good that can come from this situation.  But do NOT stop standing.  You don't have to advance the Covenant; you just have to hold on to it.  He will do bring in the fullness of the Covenant.

It may feel like Pharaoh (the Devil) is not allowing the Covenant to come to pass.  But, do not forget what Exodus 6 says.  Verse 1 says, "When he (Pharaoh) feels the force of My strong hand, he will let the people go.  In fact, he will force them to leave his land."  And in verse 6 is the promise, "I am the Lord.  I will free you from your oppression and will rescue from you from your slavery in Egypt.  I will redeem you with a powerful arm and great acts of judgment."

All we have to do is stand, friend.  Don't give up.  Take comfort in the fact that He remembers the Covenant and is actively working to cause it to happen...even if we can't see it at the moment.  The Covenant trumps EVERYTHING!!  The Covenant never loses!!  The Covenant is never lost!!

Josh and Serena







Friday, May 27, 2011

Choices

FAITH or DOUBT?
BLESSINGS or CURSES?
JUSTIFYING or STANDING?

"For out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks."  Matthew 12:34
Have you listened to yourself lately? No, I mean have you really listened? Are your words filled with faith and hope or are they filled with doubt and despair?
We should always be listening to ourselves. The confessions of our mouth most definitely determine our attitude towards them.  Frequently, (yes, I am sure you find this hard do believe) one of our five children has a bad attitude about something they have to do and the discussion of their WORDS will come up. 

Just the other day our oldest was asked if she wanted to clean the bathroom or the kitchen, afterwards she was all smiles.  She came to me and said, "Thank you for giving me a choice about what to clean; I did a much better job knowing that I had a choice."   Hmmm, this just did NOT set well with me.  We are definitely blessed with free will/choice, but should our GETTING a choice determine how well we do something?  What if it feels we are not being given a choice?  I (Serena) did not feel I was given much of a choice in the collapse of our marriage, so I could have sat back and just had a bad attitude.  This is exactly what our daughter had been doing--her lack of choice was determining her quality of work.  If God has called us to do something be grateful that we have a choice, but our attitude should be good no matter what.  We are called to do our best.  Raising our children has certainly given me more insight into my own attitudes, many times the choices I am given do NOT seem all that great.  Clean the bathroom or the kitchen....umm, neither, thanks?!?!?  How often do we say that?   In marriage you are given a choice, till death do us part or a hard heart?  We say, "Neither, thanks!"  AND then spend time proving how our hearts are just fine; do we really know the condition of our hearts? 

Our bodies/hearts can often internalize things that we have no idea of until too late, so we should do our best to make sure we aren't doing things that we have been told will have a certain outcome.  I (Serena) have what some would describe as an insanely high pain tolerance, but I can tell you this.....my BODY will and HAS quietly informed me of the dangers that the pain is causing.  When my gallbladder was acting up, and my liver and pancreas were shutting down....my blood pressure was through the roof.  I "should" have had seizures and headaches and numerous other symptoms. We are NOT all "textbook" and God's grace will still rest on our lives, but to say that our choices are not affecting us......do we REALLY want to take that risk?  Our hearts may very well be severely suffering, but because we have no symptoms.....we assume the best.  Like high blood pressure is called a "silent killer," so I believe is a hard heart. 

It's never too late....to set things right.

The Israelites were delivered from the hands of the Egyptians, yet they grumbled...

"Then they despised the pleasant land; they did not believe his promises. They grumbled in their tents and did not obey the Lord." Psalm 106:24-25
Because they did not believe God's promises, all of the generation of Israelites that grumbled in the desert died before reaching the Promise Land. Are you grumbling in the desert of divorce? Are you disbelieving the promises of God for the healing of your marriage? If so, stop right now and ask the Lord to forgive you of grumbling, faultfinding and complaining. Ask Him to replace your stony heart with a heart of flesh. Ask Him to protect your lips so that you sow seeds of grace, not seeds of destruction.

As the mouth speaks, so it will be. If I can leave you with one thought today, may it be...

"Let your conversation be always full of grace." Colossians 4:6

Let this be your prayer today...

"May the words of my mouth and the mediation of my heart, be pleasing in your sight, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer." Psalm 19:14

What you speak is so critical in the healing of your marriage. You can speak words of blessing or you can speak words of condemnation. You can talk about your circumstances or you can talk about God's promises in His Word. The choice is yours. May your words "be always full of grace."