Showing posts with label God. Show all posts
Showing posts with label God. Show all posts

Friday, January 25, 2013

The Covenant Trumps Everything

It is always so great when you read something in the Word of God that encourages you to keep focused on Him instead of your circumstances.  Recently, as we were reading with our kids in the book of Exodus, for school, we ran across some Scripture that reinforced the fact that God sides with the Covenant.  If you have a Bible, you should get it out to follow along and read for yourself.

As you may well know by now, we believe and take great comfort in the fact that God always sides with the Covenant.  It does not matter what the Covenant references.  He always will support, honor, defend, and remember His Covenant.  When God makes a Covenant with His people He does so knowing the full ramifications of His doing so.  He knows that we may fall short of upholding the Covenant.  He knows that we will forsake the terms of the Covenant.  He knows that we may not always honor the Covenant.  But He ALWAYS will remember His Covenant.  Even if it seems to us that it would be easier to negate the full terms of it and allow it to be forgotten.  He honors His Word that He swore in the Covenant.

Exodus 6 is the beginning of the story of when God has Moses lead the children of Israel out of Egypt.  There is some very interesting wording that is used in this passage.  In verse 4 it says, "I reaffirmed my Covenant with them."  What Covenant was God referring to?  The one that He made with Abraham MANY years before.  He had sworn in that Covenant that He would give Abraham and his descendants the land of Canaan.  God did not need reminding of His Covenant.  Verse 5 says the He heard the groans of Israel and was well aware of the Covenant.  The Covenant was still the foremost thought in the mind of God even though it was over 400 years that Israel had been in Egypt.

Israel could not understand that God had promised them land of Canaan but they were stuck as slaves in Egypt.  They could not see the fulfillment of the Covenant because of the situation that they were in.  In verse 9 it says that Israel had become too discouraged by the brutality of their slavery.  However, their situation (being slave in Egypt) or the brutality of it did not negate or detract from the terms of the Covenant.  God was still going to honor the covenant and bring them into that promised land.

Whats does this mean for us?  It means that in spite of the horrible situations that we find ourselves in our marriages that God has not forgotten the Covenant.  It means that in the midst of the brutality of our current circumstances that God's marriage Covenant is still His foremost thought towards us.  It means that although our marriage may look like Egypt, He is taking us from Egypt into Canaan, the land of promise.  Do NOT misread this and think that we are advocating you leaving your spouse in order to find a new relationship to get into or that we are suggesting that your marriage is not the promised land and you need to be waiting for a new marriage.  What we are saying is this: God has not forgotten His Covenant between Himself, you, and your spouse!  He remembers it in its fullness and is currently working to accomplish all of it.  Even though your circumstances may cause you to doubt His ability to accomplish it, He will still do it.  Why?  Because God CANNOT lie.  If He lied even once all of creation would crumble because everything that is was formed by His Word.  Therefore, the words that He spoke when the three of you (you, your spouse, and God Almighty) joined into the marital Covenant MUST be accomplished.

What we must realize and what the enemy of our souls (aka the Devil) wants us to forget is this: the Covenant trumps everything!  The power of Covenant does not reside with the weakest of participants and, as a result, easily broken.  The power of the Covenant comes from the most powerful of participants and, as a result can only be broken by one more powerful that He.  All lies are subject to the truth of the Covenant.  All disobedience is corrected by the honoring of the Covenant.  All other ties are broken by the binding of the Covenant.  The Devil knows that the Covenant is  binding agreement.  He knows that he has no legal ground upon which to stand.  He knows all of this and wants you to forget it.  However, it does not matter if you forget or have moments of doubt; the Lord is well aware of His Covenant.  He remembers it.  He honors it.  He defends it.  Even at our weakest moments, and when we cannot see the Covenant because of the brutality of the situation, He is still powerful and is remembering His sworn Covenant.

You may feel like you are in Egypt: a hopeless house of bondage from which you cannot escape the pain of. It may look like there is nothing good that can come from this situation.  But do NOT stop standing.  You don't have to advance the Covenant; you just have to hold on to it.  He will do bring in the fullness of the Covenant.

It may feel like Pharaoh (the Devil) is not allowing the Covenant to come to pass.  But, do not forget what Exodus 6 says.  Verse 1 says, "When he (Pharaoh) feels the force of My strong hand, he will let the people go.  In fact, he will force them to leave his land."  And in verse 6 is the promise, "I am the Lord.  I will free you from your oppression and will rescue from you from your slavery in Egypt.  I will redeem you with a powerful arm and great acts of judgment."

All we have to do is stand, friend.  Don't give up.  Take comfort in the fact that He remembers the Covenant and is actively working to cause it to happen...even if we can't see it at the moment.  The Covenant trumps EVERYTHING!!  The Covenant never loses!!  The Covenant is never lost!!

Josh and Serena







Thursday, April 28, 2011

Second Place

Their is a common misconception that marriage is to find a soul mate, to find someone that makes you a better person, to find someone to "complete you!"  Hey, even HOLLYWOOD says it...and we know "they" tell the truth about EVERYTHING! (insert sarcasm)

Without sounding too harsh, the problem with looking to another human to complete us is that, spiritually speaking, it's idolatry. We are to find our fulfillment and purpose in God . . .

God designed marriage to provide: partnership, spiritual intimacy and the ability to pursue God — together.

Satan is going to do whatever he can to make it so that THOSE things are going to be VERY difficult to accomplish.  So, what do you have a hard time with...any of these?  I certainly do!  As Josh and I learn more how to accomplish these things we pray that God gives us the practical advice and words to share.

If we put out spouse in a place that they need to be our "all" we are setting them up for failure.  No one can meet those expectations.  Our spouse can help move us into a good direction--my husband has done it many times--BUT we must not put them in a place above God.  God should be FIRST place.  Our spouse should take SECOND.

Everyone has bad days, yells at his or her spouse, or is downright selfish. Josh mentioned already about how our spouse can immediately change our outlook on life. Completely selfish turns into HAVING someone else to consider.  Living this way is not impossible, but it IS a challenge.  We cannot be selfish. 

We must realize God created marriage as a mirror of God's covenant relationship--you can see this throughout the Bible. For instance, Jesus refers to Himself as the bridegroom and to the kingdom of heaven as a wedding banquet.

These points demonstrate that God's purposes for marriage extend far beyond personal happiness. It is great to be happy, but you must realize that it is NOT the number one goal of  marriage.  Marriage promotes something of much higher value. Grasping this concept can bring you through some tough times. Our emotions are very fickle, and as we seek God as FIRST place we gain happiness from pleasing HIM.  Our happiness comes from pleasing our Heavenly Father. When we please Him our hearts will be soft, and in turn, we will find happiness in things we did not expect. Making God first will allow our marriages to fall in line with His will.  And, guess what?  Your spouse will NOT mind being second...he/she will LOVE it.

Our marriages need to point to our Heavenly Father and His existence.